About This Tool

Become the cartographer for your partner's inner world with this list of ways to create stronger Love Maps. 

Love Maps are a Gottman Method term for all the things we know about our partner. We all grow and change over time, so we're never done getting to know each other! Keep that curiosity alive with the questions in these lists. 

With your purchase, you'll receive 50 prompts broken down into five categories-- Daily Life, Family & Friends, Hobbies & Interests, Emotions, and Miscellaneous. They can be used during dedicated quality time together, or you can incorporate them into your everyday communication to foster deeper connection and intimacy. 

This tool was created for use in my self-paced, cheaper-than-therapy Premarital Counseling Education Course.

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Why It Works

John & Julie Gottman, founders of The Gottman Institute, studied a group of newlywed couples over several years and found that the ones who lasted weren't the ones with the most in common, or even the most stubborn ones! It was the ones who liked each other, and therefore prioritize knowing each other throughout their lives together. 

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Why It Works

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