About This Tool

Every couple will face a wide variety of unique challenges to their intimacy throughout life. It's impossible to prepare for each and every one, but it is important to have a general blueprint for how you'll handle things. That's where these "Open When" letter prompts come in.

Each of the seven pages in this PDF prompt you to write a letter to your loved one, which will help you through an intimacy challenge presented by a certain stage of life. Print them out, write them separately, and as you enter each phase of The Family Life Cycle, pop open a bottle of your favorite celebratory drink and read the letters you've written to each other. Not only is it a fun, time-capsule-esque activity, but it will help you enter each phase of life as a united front, ready for anything. 

For more information about the intimacy challenges presented by each stage of The Family Life Cycle, check out my self-paced, cheaper-than-therapy Premarital Counseling Education Course

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Why It Works

The Family Life Cycle was developed my Monica Mc.Goldrick and Betty Carter in 1988. It explains the cycle that the average person goes through from leaving their parents homes to becoming the matriarch and patriarch of their own families. It has since been expanded to include the average life cycle of people with different family structures, such as blended families. The stages include:

  • Leaving home
  • Joining families in marriage
  • Families with young children
  • Families with adolescents
  • Launching children
  • Families later in life
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Why It Works

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